It is really not important.  My mother-in-law said it best.  “Men are ALL the same just the names are different.”  If that doesn’t speak volumes to you then you may need some additional “training.”  Men really are all the same just as women are.  We just need different things, well, the same things but slightly different. 

Men are beings that can easily  be reckoned with.  All you need is a little finess and a little looks. If you are a good looking chick you can pretty much havce whatever you want, at least for a while.  Men are very visual beings, they just wanna see a pretty face, one that “wants” them or will “have” them.  You would be surprised at what a man would do for a little bit of “attention.”

Women, on the other hand are a little more emotional, however, you can also easily sway a female with just a little emotion wether it’s genuine or not.  Women will give of themsoves if they “think” that a man is accepting them and “loves” them.  Where as a man doesn’t even need “love” but just physical stimulation and encouragement and he then becomes “putty” in your hands.  Now you have to ask yourself if it’s all worth it.  What is LOVE?  Is there really such a thing?  That depends if the two parties involved are willing to let down their guard as well as fend off all other efforts to deplete their energy.

In other words, LOVE would truly occur if a man and a woman were so totally enthralled with each other that they did not feel the need to be open to any other external influences.  This rarely occurs.  We are all animals and if approached enough and in the proper way we will ALL stray.  It’s in our nature.  We only know what makes us feel “good.” 

So,  before you tell that “special someone” that you LOVE them maybe what you should really be asking yourself is “could I LOVE another?”  If you think about it, there really isn’t any such thing as “unconditional” love.

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