I went to the Tacoma Mall this weekend to try out the new restaurant BJ’s.  Traffic was horrible getting from the westend over to the mall.  Once we got there it was cram packed in the parking lot.  It was frusterating to say the least.  We finally got a parking space and went up to the restaurant.  On the way from the car to the restaurant we passed more interracial couples than we did same race couples.  That wouldn’t have bothered me if the demographic would have housed a tad more class.

There was white woman with black man and mixed child displayed again and again.  The only problem I really found with this meshing of flesh was that the woman was in her early 20’s, fairly good-looking, plainly dressed and the man (if you can stomach calling him that) was wearing baggy draggy pants, a sidways hat, walked with a limp wearing work boots that clearly have not seen one iota of work! To make matters worse as the guys limped into the cars the women were toting the kids, carrying the keys and the wallet!  The man slumps into the passenger seat of the car as the woman struggles to unload bags in the trunk and secure the kid and then get into the driver’s seat. 

Now, one could say perhaps this was the exception, maybe the guy was too tired to drive or help with the kid.  Doubtful, more like the woman was too stupid to pick the right guy or stay single.  It seems they probably met at a party and he was so dark and tough and seemed like such a warrior she just couldn’t resist having his child.  Thus bringing herself to such a disadvantage since not only would she be raising the child basically alone, but would be expected to support him as well.  I could tell this by the multiple women that paid the bill at the restaurant as the “dude” just walked out to her car. 

These are girls that could have probably been someone and had a decent life, now she will be downtrodened for the rest of her life dealing with this kid on her own while he takes off with another younger tighter specimen. Possibly one with a better job that he can mooch off of or a nicer car that he can be chauffered around in.  Sickening!

I have no sympathy for her though.  She made the wrong choice and will most likely learn nothing from this.  Once this guy is gone (his leaving will look something like the picture here:)

she will be stuck looking for someone to take care of her and her child.  The father will not be paying child support cause he will never have a job, doesn’t have to as long as he has stupid women willing to support him.  If she tries to collect he will run (again, refer to the baggy pants picture to your right.

If she’s lucky and they stay in contact she may be able to continue to have the kids father in his life see picture here:

She will probably try to justify to the kid that it wasn’t his dad’s fault that he got caught with drugs or stealing that car.  She may eeven want to get the youngin prepared for his upcoming greatness by purchasing a T-Shirt for the little one at the prison gift shop as shown here:She will tell the kid hero stories about his dad like how he was voted by the prison as “Most Athletic” as seen in picture here:

When all is said and done she can not lie to her inner self and will be left a shell of what she could have been had she unlocked her full potential and picked a real man. Instead she is left to be a sad girl as illustrated here:All she had to do was use her head in the first place she could have turned to her parents for guidance or a good friend or relative, there are many outlets that could have been investigated like the one here: 

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